Let’s kick things off by clarifying what BDSM is really about. It’s not just about tying someone up or a little playful spanking; BDSM is an expansive topic with three major components: bondage-discipline, domination-submission, and sadism-masochism. Each of these elements offers a range of subcategories and unique dynamics, creating a complex and exciting world. There’s … Read more
I’m going to explain a fascinating aspect of BDSM culture: the wearing of a day collar by submissives. In BDSM relationships, the delineation between the Dominant (Dom) and the submissive (sub) is clear, with the Dom setting out rules and, at times, doling out discipline while the sub, with full consent, revels in this interplay … Read more
You might think of BDSM contracts as a framework or guide for navigating the nuanced and deeply personal world of BDSM relationships. These written agreements go far beyond what you might have seen in ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’ They’re about setting the scene for trust and mutual understanding before delving into the complexities of a … Read more